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EP22: Dating and Money with Scott Trench of Bigger Pockets

Scott Trench Bigger Pockets MM

Episode #22 – Money and Dating with Scott Trench of Bigger Pockets



 

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Scott TrenchBio: Scott Trench is a perpetual student of personal finance, real estate investing, sales, business, and personal management. He is also a real estate investor, an executive at a large online corporation, salesman, real estate broker, and author. Through a solid understanding of money management, calculated risks, and a lot of hard work, he has created financial freedom for himself as well as a successful real estate business in just three years after graduating college. He hopes to now share the knowledge he has acquired so that others will have the tools they need to repeat his results in just 3-5 years, giving them the option to go anywhere they want in the world, work any job, start any business, or finish out the journey to financial independence and retire young.

Show Description: Scott and I talk about important personal decisions to make financially before dating and relationships pop-up. Scott and I also talk about fun date ideas, financial personality bits, and other considerations to make in achieving your own financial goals while enjoying a healthy social life.

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0:32 – Edit: “Bigger Pockets” Not “Bigger Podcasts”
1:17 – Go USA Eagles Rugby! Rugby Tangent 😛
3:08 – Dating And Spending Habits (Jump To Here To Get To The Good Stuff 😉 )
3:20 – Fitting Dating Into Our Spending.
4:15 – Single Vs Dating Spending
5:10 – Some Nice Unwarranted Dating Advice 😉
6:40 – The Key: Be Reasonable
7:03 – Edit “Be Aware” – Not “Be Intelligent”
9:15 – The Importance Of Setting Aside Money For Dating
10:24 – From Dating To Relationships
10:40 – Financial Compatibility: A Key In Dating
16:00 – Some Awkward Moments: Recognizing Vital Differences
18:00 – Key: Find A Partner With Similar Money Values To You
18:50 – Open Your Bank Account, And I’ll Tell You What’s Important To You (The Extra Quote I mention at 22:05)
19:15 – Money Is Only One Little Part Of A Good Relationship
20:00 – Marriage and Money : A Few Thoughts
22:20 – Money Is Just A Tool
22:55 – A Great Financial Goal Every Recent Graduate Should Consider
23:45 – Changing Disposable Income Over Time
25:00 – Money Maxim, and Scott’s Book

Money Maxim

“Most people do not accumulate significant assets early in life. And if you don’t do it early in life you miss out on huge amounts of opportunities. The stakes are really high right out of college for accumulating lots of wealth and building passive income. If you don’t do it then it gets harder and harder as you age” – Scott Trench

Contacts and Links from the Show

https://www.biggerpockets.com/users/scotttrench
www.BiggerPockets.com/SetForLife

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Episode #16 Happy Where You Are – Relationships Time and Money with Elizabeth Colegrove – The Reluctant Landlord

Episode #16 Happy Where You Are – Relationships Time and Money

with Elizabeth Colegrove – The Reluctant Landlord




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Bio: Elizabeth Colegrove is a landlord, a frugal living expert, and a proud world traveler. She is focused on early retirement and early financial freedom while maintaining a passion for traveling, exploring, and enjoying life! As a military wife who dated and married her sweetheart at a young age, she has many insights on early financial independence, expressing love to those close, and making everything enjoyable and fun.

Show Description: Today I talk with Elizabeth Colegrove from The Reluctant Landlord about dating, getting married young, and enjoying every part of it. Elizabeth met her husband at the age of 15, got engaged at the age of 20, and was married at the age of 22! We talk about enjoying time, and enjoying money, and enjoying life when one of those two are lacking!

ShowNotes:

  • 1:05 – Elizabeth shares how she met her husband
  • 2:30 – Dating at a Younger Age
  • 6:11 – Best Anniversary Ever! (The Effort Is All About Each Other)
  • 7:10 – A Peek into My Parents Anniversary 🙂
  • 8:30 – Making it work when you get married young
  • 11:20 – More things Elizabeth did to make it work when married young
  • 12:58 – Fun Runs the Show: Positive or Negative is your control
  • 13:41 – The biggest key to POWERFUL relationships. (13:41-14:01)
  • 14:01 – Making the most of a hard situation. Positive Style 🙂
  • 16:00 – Time. Money. Balance.
  • 18:10 – Saving $140,000 in 7 years. Couple Goals, and Working Hard
  • 19:59 – Going on a vacation to Hawaii and coming back with $2,500 dollars
  • 21:40 – How to make the 10 worst things in your life positive
  • 24:10 – More on making things positive and exciting
  • 25:50 – Example: turning 50-50 parent split time from a divorce into a positive thing
  • 27:11 – Elizabeth’s Money Maxim and Contact Info

Money Maxim

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“The Most Negative Things in your life can be the most positive if you can look at it in the right way”

“Your Feelings are YOUR Feelings”
“Take Your Tools and turn them into what works best for you”

“If you’re not liking a situation, CHANGE IT”

Action Items

Make a list of 10 things you HATE about life. Look at that list tomorrow, and think OKAY. How can I turn these things into a positive? (listen to 21:40-23:20)

Email me [email protected] , or [email protected] for help if you get stuck!

What is most available in your relationship right now? Time, or Money? Or neither? How can you make the most of it in a positive and uplifting manner? Comment below with something fun you’ve done recently!

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